Life isnt all ha ha hee hee

life isnt all ha ha hee hee......loved the movie....increased my respect for meera syal as an asian (more like an indian) woman capturing the home truths of being a woman,on film...
there is another issue,more psychological which was subtly dealt with but which is not spoken about openly in india....
its bout suicide n the masochistic habits of hurting oneself...
these supposed taboo issues need to be spoken about in open and the remedies shud b seen as a way to help the person and not a cause for more discontent....even when a person is helped there is a case of negative feedback from the family which leads to a cycle which the person is trying to break....
so what causes a person to want to kill him/herself?
i think its extreme distress n lack of hope or the need to escape pressure and lack of ability to c any way out from his/her problems......no relationship to rely on...nobody to talk to and share life n its moments with....depression....but extreme loss of hope as to b able to supress the instinct to survive n kill oneself? guess so......
hurting oneself is a means of escaping...substitute one pain for another...lack of self esteem n also loss of hope....shame at what they have become....search for numbness....
Is there help for these people?
maybe religion.gives them faith and hope back.
but what is more helpful is faith in another.hope that the person isn alone.i know most philosophers will b shocked by this....but yes a good relationship can heal the scars.....

"I fall 'cause I let go
The net below has right away

So as I write to you
Of what is done and to do
Maybe you'll understand
And won't cry for this man
'cause low man is due
Please forgive me"
-- Metallica